Called To Manhood

Ralph W. Beiting is his book, Called to the Mountains, talks about his early childhood memories as they relate to his growing up in school. He makes the following observation:

“Young people today have a harder time hearing the call to manhood and womanhood. They are beset from all sides by drugs, alcohol, and the immorality presented in television and movies. They’re surrounded by a culture that says material things are all that matter.”[page 32]

          The call to manhood and womanhood changes over time with every culture. What does it mean to go through the seasonal changes of one’s life and move from adolescence to adulthood? In our western culture we have some assumed rites of passage: getting a driver’s license, graduating from high school, and voting. But unfortunately these rites of passage can be passed through by individuals who are immature and not ready for adulthood!

          This move from adolescence to adulthood is difficult. But it seems that at least the following are necessary for a young person to successfully navigate these treacherous waters:

1.   A strong sense of being loved and cared for by family.

2.   Teachers who care and mentor them.

3.   Extended church family, both youth group and intergenerational experiences.

4.   A hunger and thirst for God, and a deep desire to do what is right.

5.   Wisdom in making choices, being aware of consequences.

6.   A deep and rich prayer life.

7.   Role models to look up to.

No wonder it is difficult for young men and women to hear the call to adulthood—too many other siren-voices are screaming for attention.

Think about this. What if the rite of passage into adulthood included activities and services that required mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual energy being devoted to others?! What if growing up were measured not by years, but by mature choices of service, and bonds of friendship nurtured in Christ?! What if the right of passage centered on one’s prayer life and relationship with God? What if the right of passage consisted of a young person discovering their gifts and having an adult mentor them in how to use those gifts for others?

Can each of us be a part of that rite of passage?

In Christian love, Curtis